Prepare your heart before Ramadan
“Ramadan cleanses and changes, but it only changes hearts that are prepared.”
Because the heart is a trust from Allah and the basis of meaningful worship, believers should cleanse it, guard what enters it, and anchor it to Allah before Ramadan so worship transforms them.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- The heart is an amanat from Allah, and only a sound heart benefits a person on Qiyamah.
- A corrupted heart reduces fasting, prayer, and Quran recitation to outward forms without inner change.
- Believers should examine resentment, pride, normalized sins, and spiritual heaviness, using repentance to revive the heart.
- Before Ramadan, empty the heart, guard what enters through the senses and thoughts, and anchor it to Allah through dua.
- Listeners should begin building masjid, Quran, and worship habits now so they continue after Ramadan.
- The khutbah closes with announcements about a janazah prayer and the Road to Ramadan community event.
In the khateeb's words
“what sins have I stopped feeling guilty for that I'm doing in my life?”
“What we say, what we see, what we hear, what we think, all directly impacts our heart.”
“Ramadan cleanses and changes, but it only changes hearts that are prepared.”
For the dinner table
Mufti M. Farhan teaches that the heart is an amanat, or trust, from Allah, and we will answer for how we cared for it. Ramadan can transform us only when we prepare by releasing resentment, repenting from sins we have normalized, and letting go of false pride. We should guard what reaches the heart through our eyes, ears, tongues, and thoughts. He encourages us to anchor ourselves to Allah through the Prophet's dua and to build habits with the masjid and Quran before Ramadan begins. The goal is to meet Ramadan with a heart ready to receive its guidance and to carry that consistency afterward.
- What is one habit you could start now to prepare your heart for Ramadan?
- Which things you see, hear, say, or think most affect your heart?
- What does letting go of resentment look like in our family?
The masjid
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