Patience means doing good through hardship
“Part of patience is doing good even when it is difficult to do so.”
When facing hardship, whether personal or seen in Gaza, believers should trust Allah's wisdom, respond with sabr and prayer, and take every practical opportunity to do good.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Connects Surah al-Baqarah's trials of fear, hunger, loss, and death to Gaza and personal hardships.
- Reframes tests through the Prophet's suffering and hadith about Allah's love, forgiveness, and mercy.
- Urges practical action alongside patience, using Hajar and Maryam as examples.
- Explains sabr through prayer, persistent dua, endurance, and continued good deeds.
- Uses the akhirah and a bereaved friend's faith to offer perspective and comfort.
- Applies sabr to Gaza through boycotts, protests, awareness, and contacting Congress about the Block the Bombs Act.
In the khateeb's words
“We should have a positive view of Allah that when we are being tested, that Allah actually wants good for us.”
“we have to actually do something as Muslims when we're going through difficulty.”
“Do not underestimate, do not belittle the opportunities Allah has given us here.”
“part of patience is doing good even when it is difficult to do so.”
For the dinner table
Today’s khutbah reminded us that everyone faces tests, and the khateeb connected the suffering in Gaza with the Qur’an’s descriptions of fear, hunger, and loss. He used the Prophet Muhammad’s hardships to remind us that difficulty does not mean Allah is angry with us. Through the stories of Hajar and Maryam, he taught that trusting Allah goes together with taking practical steps and seeking help. He encouraged us to keep praying and making dua with patience, even when relief does not come as quickly as we hope. Patience can include tears and sadness, and it also means continuing to do good when doing so is difficult. He asked us to use the opportunities we have to help people in Gaza, remembering that Allah can bring more good from a small action than we can imagine.
- What is one helpful step you could take when something feels difficult, alongside making dua?
- How could we comfort someone who is sad without expecting them to hide their tears?
- What small action could our family keep doing to help people in Gaza?
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