Parents must invest early in children's faith
Muslim families in the West must actively protect their children's faith and identity through close parenting, mosque involvement, and investment in Islamic schooling.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Warns that moral and family pressures in the West are reaching Muslim homes.
- Urges parents to spend focused time with children, especially teenagers, and preserve family relationships.
- Emphasizes mosque community and friendships as protection for children's faith.
- Recommends Islamic schools as an investment in Quran, aqidah, and identity.
- Encourages families to act early rather than waiting until children become teenagers.
- Highlights a local Islamic academy and asks the community to support it financially.
In the khateeb's words
“Shut down your phone. Shut it completely. And stay with them. Go at reps together. Talk together. Be close to them.”
“If you just wanted to secure the food and the clothes and the housing for your kids. Wallahi this is not enough.”
“Invest. Invest in your community. Invest in your kids. All of this is going to make big difference.”
For the dinner table
Dr. Mustafa Shahin reminded us that caring for our families takes more than providing food, clothes, and a home. He urged parents to put their phones away, listen to their children, spend time together, and stay close through the teenage years. He described the masjid as a place for friendship, prayer, and learning, and encouraged families to invest in Islamic education. He also asked adults to treat one another respectfully during family difficulties and keep protecting their children. His message was to start early and give our time and support to our children and community so that faith and Muslim identity can grow.
- What would you enjoy doing together with everyone's phones put away?
- What helps you feel welcome at the masjid, and how could you help someone else feel welcome?
- What is something about our faith you would like us to learn together?
More on Youth & education
It starts at home by presenting the real role model for our children.29:05TARIC · Downsview, ON · Oct 31, 2026Parents shape their children's faith