Ramadan & fastingFrom the masjid's own video, Feb 6, 2026.

Prepare for Ramadan by softening the heart

“Teach us how to steady our hearts.”

The khateeb, at 37:56

In one sentence

Ramadan preparation should focus less on measurable religious performance and more on cultivating a receptive, soft, Quran-governed heart that produces taqwa, mercy, integrity, and courageous responsibility toward others.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. He calls listeners to prepare for Ramadan through inner receptivity and release from ghafla, rather than schedules, shopping, or achievement metrics.
  2. Using the fasting verse, he argues that worship’s intended yield is taqwa expressed through transformed conduct.
  3. He frames Ramadan as a month of Quran, generosity, and rahmah, asking how compassion and integrity appear in daily life.
  4. He connects this responsibility to sectarian violence, Palestine, Sudan, racism, classism, and welcoming people across difference.
  5. He urges Muslims to move beyond private self-improvement and consumer identity, becoming publicly present people of mercy, truth, and justice.
  6. He closes with a Friday journaling exercise and a dua for a Ramadan that softens, recalibrates, and transforms the heart.
Try this week
Set aside part of Friday for stillness and write what is captivating, filling, or attaching your heart, along with what you need to release.
Call someone, especially someone from a different sect or background, and ask whether they are okay and how they are feeling.
Use the Quran as a guide for decisions and conduct, not only as a reading target.
Practice rahmah, integrity, generosity, and truthfulness in everyday relationships and responsibilities.
Treat fasting as restraint of the ego, tongue, and lower self, not only the stomach.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“A person of taqwa is not going to be someone who is unkind. A person of taqwa is not going to be someone who validates arrogance and racism.”
ICNYC · Greenwich Village, NY
Play from 26:41
“A fast is not just about a restraint of a stomach But the fast is about a restraint of the ego”
ICNYC · Greenwich Village, NY
Play from 33:49
“Before you ask us to restrain our bodies Teach us how to steady our hearts Before you ask us to hunger Teach us what we have been feeding on that does not nourish us”
ICNYC · Greenwich Village, NY
Play from 37:56
“Commit us to truth when lies feel easier Commit us to rahmah when anger feels justified Commit us to responsibility when apathy feels safe”
ICNYC · Greenwich Village, NY
Play from 39:05
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

Ramadan is approaching, and the khutbah asks us to prepare our hearts, not only our schedules or worship checklists. Fasting is meant to grow taqwa, a living awareness of Allah that makes us more compassionate, honest, generous, and just. We should notice what distracts or hardens us, then make room for mercy toward people who differ from us. The speaker encourages us to use Friday for quiet journaling and to reach out to someone who may be struggling. Ramadan should send us back into daily life more awake and courageous, not simply give us a month of routines.

  1. What is one thing you want to make room for in your heart before Ramadan?
  2. How can we show rahmah to someone who feels tired or left out?
  3. What is one choice where we can let the Quran guide us?