Ramadan should transform your relationship with Allah
“The purpose of Ramadan is to come out with a fundamentally transformed relationship with Allah Ta'ala.”
Ramadan's purpose is not merely to accumulate extra deeds and rewards, but to cultivate taqwa, a lasting, loving consciousness of Allah that produces spiritual growth beyond Ramadan.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Identifies the cycle of Ramadan spiritual boosts followed by post-Ramadan decline and flat long-term growth.
- Critiques treating Ramadan as a points-based bonus round that encourages complacency.
- Reframes Ramadan through Qur'an 2:183 and hadith as a path to taqwa and closeness to Allah.
- Uses marriage, parenthood, and visiting grandparents as analogies for a transformed relationship and attention.
- Offers self-assessment gauges involving worship's motivation, longing for the Hereafter, and sustained du'a.
- Closes with al-Ghazali's three levels of fasting and a call to use remaining Ramadan for transformation.
In the khateeb's words
“the purpose of Ramadan is to come out with a fundamentally transformed relationship with Allah Ta'ala.”
“But the real purpose of actions is to actually seek to develop a close relationship with Allah Ta'ala and begin to get the love of Allah Ta'ala.”
“I haven't yet achieved my goal. So what am I going to do in these remaining days?”
“The first level of fasting is when a person just abstains from food and drink. The second level of fasting is that a person abstains from sin.”
For the dinner table
Ramadan is more than a month for collecting extra rewards; it is meant to transform our relationship with Allah and help us develop taqwa. The speaker warned that if we treat Ramadan like a temporary bonus round, we may return to old habits once it ends. We can honestly ask whether we worship only from obligation or also from a sincere desire to draw near to Allah. We can notice whether our du'a feels like a real, ongoing conversation. In the remaining days, we should seek a lasting connection with Allah while remembering the three levels of fasting: avoiding food and drink, avoiding sin, and turning away from everything besides Allah.
- What helps you remember Allah during an ordinary day?
- How can we make our du'a feel more like a real conversation?
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