Youth & educationFrom the masjid's own video, Oct 25, 2025.

Parents must fulfill their children's rights

In one sentence

Children are a major blessing from Allah, and parents must show gratitude by fulfilling their children's rights and investing early, wisely, and consistently in their upbringing.

The khutbah in 5 steps

  1. Children are blessings distributed by Allah with wisdom.
  2. Parents should examine their own early effort when teenagers struggle.
  3. Parenting is an accountable trust, illustrated by prophetic prayers for children.
  4. Children have rights, including a good mother, good name, and Quran education.
  5. The khutbah closes with prayers for families and guidance.
Try this week
Treat teenagers with wisdom and a special approach.
Review your parenting methods and increase effort during childhood.
Bring children to the masjid, wake them for Fajr, and teach Islam early.
Fulfill children's rights before demanding obedience.
Sources the khateeb cited
Surah 18The phrase about wealth and children being the adornment of worldly life frames children as a blessing.
Surah 42Allah's granting of daughters, sons, both, or no children supports accepting divine wisdom in family circumstances.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“the one he has complaint it's simple he didn't put enough efforts during their their childhood”
FMCCNJ · Paramus, NJ
Play from 18:25
“since Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala rewarded you you have to think about it this is one as a one of responsibility you would be asked one day especially in the day of judgment”
FMCCNJ · Paramus, NJ
Play from 22:59
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

Children are one of Allah's gifts, and parents are accountable for how they care for them. Allah gives children in different ways, and every blessing carries responsibility. The speaker urged parents to begin early with care, prayer, mosque connection, and teaching Islam. He also reminded us that children have rights, so parents should not demand obedience while neglecting their own duties. We can respond with gratitude, patience, and steady effort in raising our children.

  1. What is one small way our family can care for one another better this week?
  2. Which prayer, mosque, or Quran habit would you like us to strengthen together?
  3. What rights do children have in our family, and how can we honor them?