Patience prepares believers for Ramadan
“We need to ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to give us patience because it is Allah who gives patience.”
As Ramadan approaches, believers should prepare by cultivating sabr, patience, restraint, perseverance, and acceptance of Allah’s decree, through worship, resisting sin, family prayer, and learning from righteous examples.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Introduces Ramadan as the month of Quran and fasting, requiring preparation.
- Defines sabr as patience, restraint, endurance, and perseverance beyond calamity.
- Explains three forms of patience: obeying Allah, avoiding sin, and accepting divine decree.
- Applies patience to fasting, prayer, family worship, and Ramadan’s tests.
- Uses Badr, steadfast believers, Yusuf, Ayyub, and Ka'b ibn Malik to illustrate patience.
- Closes by urging prayer for patience, study of righteous examples, and year-round practice.
In the khateeb's words
“Coming to Salatul Jum'a and coming to the five daily prayers requires patience. It requires patience to abstain from sin and to restrain to yourself.”
“we need to ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to give us patience because it is Allah who gives patience”
“lastly to see the blessings and the virtues of patience and that will give us encouragement to be patient during not just Ramadan but the entire year”
For the dinner table
The khutbah reminds us that Ramadan is approaching and deserves thoughtful preparation. Sabr means more than enduring a calamity; it includes staying committed to worship, resisting sin, and accepting Allah’s decree. Families are encouraged to support one another in prayer, fasting, Taraweeh, and Tahajjud with patience. The stories of the prophets and companions show that truthfulness and perseverance bring Allah’s help. We should ask Allah for patience and practice it throughout the entire year.
- What is one kind of patience you want to practice during Ramadan?
- How can our family help each other pray with patience?
- Which story of patience from the khutbah do you remember most?
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