Ramadan & fastingFrom the masjid's own video, Jan 17, 2026.

Ramadan should change how we live

“Ramadan is a time to strive to become a better person.”

The khateeb, at 26:33

In one sentence

Ramadan should be approached as a season of preparation, Quran-guided taqwa, worship, generosity, gratitude, and compassionate action that changes how Muslims live beyond the month.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Prepares listeners for Ramadan through advance planning and seeking acceptance of deeds.
  2. Distinguishes Ramadan’s purpose of Quranic guidance from fasting’s purpose of developing taqwa.
  3. Presents practical Ramadan habits involving worship, self-discipline, Quran, congregational prayer, and Laylat al-Qadr.
  4. Calls for dua for grieving families and suffering communities, while emphasizing respect for parents.
  5. Explains responsibilities involving zakat, fitrah, generosity, masjid support, Eid, and six Shawwal fasts.
  6. Closes with hope, gratitude, community education, and confidence that relief accompanies hardship.
Try this week
Prepare for Ramadan before it begins through worship and habit-building.
Protect the fast by avoiding lies, obscene language, quarrels, and evil actions.
Attend Fajr and Isha in congregation and increase mosque attendance and prayer.
Make dua for oneself, family, grieving parents, and suffering communities.
Honor and care for living parents.
Pay zakat and fitrah early so recipients can benefit.
Support the masjid and practice generosity during Ramadan.
Celebrate Eid peacefully with family and friends, then fast six days of Shawwal.
Attend the announced Islamic education forum if possible.
Sources the khateeb cited
Quran 2:185Used to explain Ramadan as the month in which the Quran was revealed as guidance and a criterion between right and wrong.
Quran 2:183Used to explain that fasting is prescribed to develop taqwa, or God-consciousness.
Sahih al-BukhariUsed to argue that fasting without abandoning lies, false speech, and evil actions is spiritually deficient.
Quran 9:60Used to identify the eight categories of people entitled to receive zakat.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“The only thing that is more important than the actual performance of the good deeds is the acceptance of the good deeds.”
ICOI · Irvine, CA
Play from 19:29
“Ramadan is a time to strive to become a better person, a better parent, a better spouse, a better child, a better colleague, a better neighbor, a better citizen, a better Muslim and overall a better human being.”
ICOI · Irvine, CA
Play from 26:33
“So if your parents are alive, take this as a great blessing from Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and take good care of them.”
ICOI · Irvine, CA
Play from 31:56
“Zakat is not a favor of the rich upon the poor. It is the right of the poor upon the rich.”
ICOI · Irvine, CA
Play from 33:50
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

Ramadan is coming, and the khutbah reminded us to prepare before it begins, not wait until it is underway. Fasting is meant to grow taqwa, awareness of Allah, while the Quran gives Ramadan its guidance and purpose. We were encouraged to pray, read Quran, make dua, give zakat and fitrah, care for parents, and become more generous. The speaker also asked us to remember grieving families and people suffering around the world. May Ramadan help our whole family change for the better and carry those habits into the rest of the year.

  1. What is one habit you want to prepare before Ramadan?
  2. How can our family show generosity and care for others this Ramadan?
  3. What can we do to honor our parents and grandparents?