Build steady faith through daily self-accounting
“Look at your own self in the mirror and make an accounting of what you are, what you've done, how you've done it.”
A believer should practice constant self-accounting, recognize every blessing as Allah's gift, guard the mind and empty moments, and build stable iman through conscious worship and disciplined habits.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- New Year resolutions are unnecessary without daily self-accounting before death and judgment.
- The Qur'anic story of the two gardens illustrates how blessings can produce arrogance and self-credit.
- Humility means recognizing Allah's control over every blessing and repeating mashallah.
- Iman is affected by mental state, food, routines, and how empty moments are spent.
- Imam Ali's warning encourages careful selection of teachers and role models.
- Fasting and mindful worship in Rajab and other months can strengthen awareness and connection to Allah.
In the khateeb's words
“account yourself look at your own self in the mirror and make an accounting of what you are what you've done how you've done it”
“Use your brain. Use your minds to see who you are following. Why you are following them.”
“Even five minutes of awareness is better than ten hours of no awareness.”
For the dinner table
The khateeb began by saying we do not need a new year to start changing; we should examine ourselves every day. He used the Qur'anic story of the man with two gardens to show how blessings can make us arrogant when we forget they come from Allah. He reminded us that iman is affected by our thoughts, food, habits, and the way we spend empty moments, so remembrance of Allah should fill those spaces. He also warned us to choose teachers and role models carefully, seeking knowledge and guidance rather than confidence without truth. In Rajab and the months around it, small practices such as fasting and mindful worship can help us keep our faith steady.
- How can we show gratitude when something good happens to us?
- What makes someone a trustworthy role model?
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