Repentance & taqwaFrom the masjid's own video, Sep 26, 2025.
Choose relationships that strengthen faith
DeSoto House of · Emad Hamdan
“I wish I did not take so-and-so as my BFF.”
In one sentence
Because worldly relationships may collapse on Judgment Day unless grounded in taqwa and love of Allah, Muslims should examine their relationships and choose companions who draw them toward faith.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- The khutbah opens with Qur'anic reminders that close friends become enemies on Judgment Day except the God-conscious.
- It explains taqwa as awareness of Allah guiding every decision, beyond knowledge or technical expertise.
- It contrasts relationships based on worldly benefit with relationships rooted in love of Allah.
- It urges listeners to examine their relationships with Allah, themselves, family, friends, and others.
- It warns that close friends shape behavior, secrets, and online conduct, especially for children.
- It closes with supplications for families and reminders about community educational programs.
Try this week
Examine relationships with Allah, yourself, family, friends, and the people around you.
Choose companions who bring you closer to Allah rather than relationships based on greed or worldly benefit.
Notice how friends influence your behavior, speech, secrets, and online activity.
Pay close attention to what children do online and guide their digital relationships.
Protect confidences and choose people who will protect yours.
Quotes
In the khateeb's words
“Потому что ваша связь основана на любви к Аллаху, и И даже если мы очень слабы и делаем много ошибок, когда мы плачем, мы быстро отрекаемся.”
“Вы должны проверить отношения, которые у вас есть в этой мире. С собой, с вашим Сыном, с вашими важными отношениями, с собой и с своим Сыном.”
“I wish I did not take so-and-so as my BFF. как человека, с которым я много времени и энергии провожу.”
Talk about it at home
For the dinner table
The khutbah reminds us that not every relationship lasts beyond this life. The strongest relationships are built around love of Allah and help us become better Muslims. We should examine how our friendships, family relationships, and personal choices affect our faith. Friends can shape our behavior and online habits, so we should choose them carefully. Parents should pay attention to children's online lives and guide them with wisdom and care.
- Which relationships help you become kinder and closer to Allah?
- What makes someone a trustworthy friend?
- How can we make our online choices reflect our values?
Where it was given
The masjid
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