Taqwa means resisting the pressure to fit in
“As a believer, you are expected to forbid that which is wrong and encourage that which is correct.”
Muslims should live with taqwa by resisting social pressure, submitting their desires to Allah, and reforming themselves and their communities with steadfastness.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Defines taqwa as living with awareness of Allah and accountability.
- Explains Islam’s strangeness as resistance to prevailing beliefs, desires, and social trends.
- Describes the ghuraba as reformers who correct corruption and uphold the Sunnah.
- Applies the message to gossip, theft, backbiting, reputation-destruction, and family life.
- Illustrates steadfastness through Mus'ab ibn Umair and the promise of reward during trials.
- Closes with prayers for forgiveness, steadfastness, and oppressed people worldwide.
In the khateeb's words
“But Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala didn't give us a golden platter to go do as we want. We are limited.”
“As a believer, You are expected to stand for what is correct. As a believer, you are expected to forbid that which is wrong and encourage that which is correct.”
“Mus'ab ibn Umair is remembered but those of Mecca that had prominence and were the leads of trends no one remembers them.”
For the dinner table
The khutbah teaches us to live with taqwa: remembering that Allah sees us and that we will answer for our choices. Muslims should not simply follow every social trend or desire, but submit their wants to Allah and try to correct wrongdoing around them. The speaker calls reformers, people who bring good when others drift into gossip, dishonesty, immorality, or neglect of the Sunnah, the blessed strangers. He reminds us through Mus'ab ibn Umair that faithfulness can matter more than popularity or comfort. Even when holding to our faith feels difficult, trials can bring great reward, so we should stay steadfast and pray for people facing oppression.
- What is one social pressure that makes it hard to follow our values?
- How can our family bring good to someone this week?
- What difficulty could we respond to with patience and hope?
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