Health & wellbeingFrom the masjid's own video, Jan 24, 2026.

Respond to addiction with mercy and hope

“The intelligent person, as long as they have not lost their intelligence, must understand the epoch.”

The khateeb, at 15:42

In one sentence

In an age of instant gratification and internet-based addictions, Muslims should understand their times and respond to struggling people with mercy, knowledge, hope, and practical support rather than shame or despair.

The khutbah in 5 steps

  1. Understand the epoch before tending to personal and communal responsibilities.
  2. Identify instant gratification and technology-driven addictions as defining pressures of the present age.
  3. Use the story of the man who killed 100 people to teach repentance and Allah’s mercy.
  4. Apply four counsels attributed to Nabi Isa: remembrance, self-accountability, recognizing different vulnerabilities, and mercy.
  5. Support people facing mental-health challenges and addictions through dua, referrals, and community services.
Try this week
Understand how current technology and environments affect your family and community.
Respond to people confessing struggles with guidance and hope rather than shame or despair.
Ask Allah to forgive, protect, and guide those facing sins or addictions.
Refer people suffering from mental-health issues or addictions to appropriate support.
Make dua for Lamps of Light and support its work if able.
Sources the khateeb cited
Quran 91:7-8Used to explain that souls are inspired to recognize wrongdoing and righteousness.
Sahih al-BukhariThe story of the man who killed 100 people was used to show that repentance remains possible and guidance should not produce despair.
Musnad AhmadThe young man asking permission for zina illustrated compassionate, question-based guidance instead of humiliation.
Muwatta MalikUsed to recommend remembrance, self-accountability, mercy toward the afflicted, and gratitude for protection.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“the intelligent person as long as they have not lost their intelligence must understand the epoch.”
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Play from 15:42
“Sabr is lost. Patience is lost. When you're constantly getting what you want immediately, we lose the ability to stay patient when we are afflicted with small things, let alone big things.”
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Play from 18:43
“He didn't want to overpower him with religion. He wanted to empower him towards his Lord.”
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Play from 27:50
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khateeb reminded us that understanding the times we live in helps us care for the people around us. He explained that getting things instantly can weaken our patience, and that online habits can become serious struggles. Through stories of repentance and the Prophet's kindness, he encouraged us to guide people toward Allah without making them feel hopeless. He reminded us to look at our own faults and show mercy to people who are struggling. Our families and masjids should welcome people seeking to change, encourage repentance, and help them find support.

  1. When is waiting hardest for you, and what could help you practice patience?
  2. What could we say to help someone who feels ashamed of a mistake seek Allah's forgiveness?
  3. How can our family make it easier to ask for help with a difficult online habit?