Verify what you hear before judging
“Do not allow repetition to replace evidence.”
Islam requires believers to see the world truthfully by verifying information, practicing justice, examining themselves, listening for truth, rejecting dehumanization, and confronting oppression with wisdom and mercy.
The khutbah in 7 steps
- Establishes truthful perception as a believer’s responsibility and warns that repeated stories can replace evidence.
- Uses Quran and hadith to require verification before believing, judging, commenting, or forwarding information.
- Develops justice beyond group loyalty, including fairness toward enemies and self-criticism of personal double standards.
- Urges listeners to ask whether they may be wrong and accept truth regardless of its source.
- Rejects “us versus them,” dehumanization, and religious insults, calling for gentle and wise speech.
- Explains that restraining an oppressor helps prevent further oppression and urges perspective-taking before judgment.
- Calls Muslims to change themselves and embody truth, dignity, mercy, and justice.
In the khateeb's words
“Do not allow repetition to replace evidence Do not allow prejudice to replace justice And do not allow hatred to prevent you from seeing the truth”
“A person of wisdom Does not ask Only who said this He also asks Is that true?”
“Before demanding justice from everyone else We need to ask whether I am just to my family Whether I am just to my parents Whether I am just to my employees Whether I am just to my neighbors”
For the dinner table
Today’s khutbah reminded us that Allah wants us to be people of truth and justice. Hearing a story many times does not make it true, so we should check it before believing it or passing it on. We should be fair even to people we dislike, listen when they speak the truth, and examine our own mistakes instead of always excusing them. The khateeb reminded us that every person has dignity and that even Pharaon was to be addressed gently. As a family, we can practice these teachings by speaking kindly, stopping harm, and asking how we need to change ourselves.
- If a friend shares a surprising story about someone at school, what could you do before repeating it?
- When have you learned something true or helpful from someone you disagreed with?
- How could you help a friend stop doing something hurtful while still speaking kindly?