Youth & educationFrom the masjid's own video, Sep 3, 2025.

Children need faithful, ongoing guidance

In one sentence

Children are a divine blessing and a serious amanah, so parents and community leaders must actively guide their faith and character through sustained example, vigilance, and care.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Children are blessings for which people will be accountable before Allah.
  2. Parents must protect their families from spiritual ruin through serious, ongoing tarbiyah.
  3. Parents, teachers, mentors, and community leaders can all fail children by neglecting guidance.
  4. Harmful influences can fill the vacuum when adults relax their responsibility.
  5. Faithful parental example can help descendants enter Jannah and elevate their parents’ ranks.
  6. The khutbah closes by urging renewed intention, vigilance, dua, and age-appropriate Islamic education for children.
Try this week
Treat children’s tarbiyah as a nonoptional responsibility and actively protect their faith.
Model correct aqidah, akhlaq, and religious practice through both words and actions.
Maintain daily concern, vigilance, and dua rather than assuming children will find guidance on their own.
Enroll children in age-appropriate Islamic education, tarbiyah, or deen programs.
Sources the khateeb cited
Surah 66The command to protect oneself and one's family from the Fire makes tarbiyah a serious responsibility.
Surah 33The description of people blaming elders and leaders warns that influential adults may be held responsible for misguidance.
Surah 52The promise to join believing descendants with their parents in Jannah encourages faithful family formation without diminishing anyone's earned reward.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“But the reminder for today is that just like these are our blessings, they are at the same time a very, very great responsibility.”
DarusSalam · Lombard, IL
Play from 3:35
“That doing the terbiya of the children is not something which is, you know, we can do part-time or an optional thing.”
DarusSalam · Lombard, IL
Play from 4:27
“it is up to us To make this intention And to remain focused On fulfilling this responsibility”
DarusSalam · Lombard, IL
Play from 21:55
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

Our children are gifts from Allah, but they are also a trust for which we will be accountable. The speaker warned that neglecting their faith and character can leave them vulnerable to harmful influences. He also gave hope that children who follow their parents’ example in faith can become a means of raising their parents’ rank in Jannah. The best tarbiyah combines words, consistent example, loving guidance, vigilance, and dua. We can begin by renewing our intention and seeking beneficial Islamic learning for every age.

  1. What is one good habit we can practice together as a family?
  2. How can our actions teach faith more clearly than our words?
  3. What kind of Islamic learning would help each person in our family grow?