Make summer a season of growth
“There's a higher purpose that they need to understand and they need to comprehend.”
Summer break should be used as a spiritually purposeful season in which young people grow through worship, teachability, and meaningful relationships, while parents mentor them with love, room to grow, and accountability.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Prays for forgiveness and relief for Gaza and oppressed communities.
- Introduces summer break as a season requiring continued obedience, not a spiritual vacation.
- Warns against idleness, heedlessness, empty speech, and unrestrained desires, urging purposeful use of time.
- Uses the five-before-five reminder and examples of the companions to stress teachability, change, and higher purpose.
- Connects self-centered isolation with antisocial behavior, mental-health strain, and future marital and work problems.
- Calls parents to mentor, befriend, guide, allow growth, and maintain loving accountability while bonding during summer.
In the khateeb's words
“there's a higher call there's a higher purpose that they need to understand and they need to comprehend”
“your role and your responsibility today just not it's not to be a money bank but for you to be a mentor for you to be a friend for you to be a leader to your sons and daughters”
For the dinner table
The khutbah begins by praying for relief for Gaza and all oppressed people. It then reminds us that summer vacation is not a vacation from worship or responsibility. Young people should use their time well, remain open to advice, and remember that life has a higher purpose than pleasure. Parents should be more than financial providers: they should mentor, befriend, guide, and lovingly hold their children accountable. Families are encouraged to make summer a time for bonding, growth, and protection from harmful influences.
- How can parents support us while still giving us room to grow and correct mistakes?
- What higher purpose should guide the choices we make this summer?
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