Sincere intentions matter more than appearances
“We have to start with what's inside versus what's outside.”
A new school year should renew not only outward habits but also the sincerity, God-consciousness, and excellence of one's inner intentions.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Frames the youth khutbah around the new school year and the desire for a “new me.”
- Shifts attention from appearances and social groups to Allah's view of one's intentions.
- Explains Islam, iman, and ihsan through Hadith Jibreel.
- Defines ikhlas, taqwa, and ihsan as stages of transforming ordinary halal activities into worship.
- Warns against showing off and hidden shirk through social media, popularity, appearance, and generosity.
- Closes with practical advice: pause before posting, perform private good deeds, make du'a for sincerity, and arrive on time.
In the khateeb's words
“we have to start with what's inside versus what's outside we want to change what people can see in us but we should always be concerned first and foremost with what Allah sees”
“ihsan is that you worship Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala as though you see Him even if you don't see Him know that He sees you”
For the dinner table
The khateeb reminded us that a new school year is a chance to grow, and that growth should begin with our hearts and intentions. He spoke about ikhlas, or sincerity for Allah, taqwa, which helps guard our intentions, and ihsan, worshipping with awareness that Allah sees us. Everyday activities, such as exercising, meeting friends, and working to provide for family, can become worship when done with the right intention. He encouraged us to pause before posting online and ask whether we are seeking Allah’s pleasure or people’s praise. As a family, we can practice quiet good deeds and ask Allah to help us keep our intentions sincere.
- What is one way you would like to grow on the inside this school year?
- What could you ask yourself before sharing an achievement online?
- What are some ways people can help others without getting credit?
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