Health & wellbeingFrom the masjid's own video, Apr 17, 2026.

Protect your heart from endless scrolling

“Anything that you do consistently has an impact.”

The khateeb, at 13:28

In one sentence

Unchecked social-media consumption creates unintended effects on the mind, faith, relationships, and moral priorities, so believers should consciously protect their intellect and redirect their time toward meaningful worship and human connection.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Uses space travel as an analogy for unintended consequences outside a natural environment.
  2. Argues that short-form feeds and doomscrolling expose the mind to unnatural, fragmented information.
  3. Explains how phones, selfies, and curated online lives distort self-image and expectations.
  4. Warns that repeated media consumption reshapes perception, attention, khushu, and family relationships.
  5. Discusses accountability for what people watch, post, say, and consume online.
  6. Encourages replacing excessive scrolling with janazah attendance, visiting the sick, and nurturing children.
Try this week
Make a conscious decision about how social media is affecting your mind and use it intentionally.
Replace some scrolling with attending janazah, visiting the sick, and spending focused time with children.
Speak good or remain silent, and avoid posting boastful, insensitive, or privacy-invading content.
Protect your intellect and fill your heart with beneficial influences.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“Our minds are constantly exposed to an unnatural environment and we need to be conscious of the consequences that occur.”
Jam-e-Masjid Islamic Center · Boonton, NJ
Play from 8:47
“Anything that you do consistently has an impact. And for six hours a day, here I am ingesting social media through the stomach of my eyes.”
Jam-e-Masjid Islamic Center · Boonton, NJ
Play from 13:28
“The heart is an empty space and it's filled with what you fill it with. Simple but elegant.”
Jam-e-Masjid Islamic Center · Boonton, NJ
Play from 24:31
“Social media in and of itself is not the problem, but it's a catalyst to the problem.”
Jam-e-Masjid Islamic Center · Boonton, NJ
Play from 27:02
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbah teaches that our minds are shaped by what we repeatedly watch and absorb. Social media can make short clips and carefully edited lives feel like reality, which may harm gratitude, marriages, attention in prayer, and family relationships. The speaker says social media itself is not automatically wrong, but we must use it consciously and remember that we will answer for our choices. He encourages replacing some scrolling with worship, attending janazahs, visiting the sick, and giving loving attention to children. The main reminder is to protect our intellect and fill our hearts with what benefits us.

  1. What is one thing you could do instead of scrolling when you have free time?
  2. How can we tell when an online post is only showing a highlight reel?
  3. What helps you give full attention to Allah and to the people around you?