Honor comes from taqwa, not appearance
“Be good to your parents so your children become good to you.”
A Muslim's true honor and salvation come from sincere, high-quality worship and actions that follow the Prophet, especially by purifying the heart, rejecting racism, and maintaining family ties for Allah's sake.
The khutbah in 5 steps
- Calls listeners to taqwa, gratitude, and living Islam sincerely until death.
- Rejects racism and teaches that honor is measured by taqwa, not appearance, ethnicity, or wealth.
- Prepares listeners for Ramadan by emphasizing sincere intentions, quality worship, pure hearts, and hidden good deeds.
- Urges righteous actions, charity, Qur'an, sunnah prayers, and strong family relationships, especially honoring parents.
- Closes by directing listeners toward patience, Allah's reward of Jannah, and supplication.
In the khateeb's words
“The Arab is not better than a non-Arab nor is the non-Arab better than a Arab nor is the white better than black or black better than white”
“Allah does not look at your shapes and colors Allah does not look at your wealth Allah looks at two things Allah looks at your heart”
“Keep your good deeds secret The way you keep your sins private”
“Be good to your parents so your children become good to you.”
For the dinner table
The khateeb reminded us that Allah looks at our hearts and actions, rather than our appearance or wealth. He called us to reject racism and value taqwa, which means being mindful of Allah. As we prepare for Ramadan, he encouraged us to renew our intentions, worship calmly, and focus on the quality of our deeds. He also reminded us that caring for parents and staying connected with family are acts of worship, and that we can remember parents who have died through dua and kindness to their friends. Through all these deeds, we should seek Allah’s pleasure and the reward of Jannah, without needing praise or favors in return.
- What helps you feel calm and attentive when you pray?
- What kindness could you do quietly without needing anyone to notice?
- Which relative could we call or do something kind for this week?
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