True striving starts with self-control
“The best fasting after Ramadan is in the month of Allah, the month of Muharram.”
True striving begins with mastering one’s desires and obedience to Allah, which enables believers to face external challenges and seize opportunities such as fasting Muharram.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Taqwa and striving bring guidance and success.
- Self-control is the first form of jihad.
- A true Muslim protects others from harm.
- The Farewell Hajj defines the mujahid as one who struggles against the self.
- Fasting Muharram, especially Ashura and the preceding day, is encouraged.
- The khutbah closes with prayers for forgiveness, Palestine, and the Muslim community.
In the khateeb's words
“the one who is able to conquer himself and overcome it through striving is able to overcome the enemy”
“the best fasting after Ramadan is in the month of Allah the month of Muharram”
For the dinner table
The khutbah teaches that the most important struggle is the struggle to control our own desires and obey Allah. A strong Muslim is someone whose words and actions make other people feel safe. The speaker encouraged worship that requires effort, including fasting during Muharram, especially Ashura and the day before it. The sermon also reminded us to leave sins, protect others from harm, and become trustworthy. It ended by praying for forgiveness, guidance, and relief for oppressed Muslims, especially in Palestine.
- What is one desire you could practice controlling this week?
- How can our family make others feel safe through our words and actions?
- What would make fasting a meaningful act of self-discipline for you?
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