Ramadan fasting requires rules and self-control
“You have food in the fridge, you have water over there, but you never get close because you observe the presence of Allah.”
As Ramadan approaches, Muslims should learn the practical rules of fasting while using Ramadan to cultivate self-control and awareness of Allah.
The khutbah in 7 steps
- Opens with extended Arabic devotional recitations and salutations.
- Explains the doubtful day before Ramadan and how to form the intention to fast.
- Distinguishes fidya, qada, and kaffara for illness, pregnancy, missed fasts, and intentional violations.
- Discusses differing marja rulings, frequent travelers, and when to consult a religious authority.
- Explains zakat al-fitr, its timing, and giving money beforehand as an amanah.
- Offers suhoor, hydration, dietary, and health advice for Ramadan.
- Concludes with salutations to Imam Husayn and the Ahl al-Bayt.
In the khateeb's words
“The first question: Is this wajib on you to fast on that day? The answer is no. You don't have to fast because you're not sure.”
“The Fidya is only Ta'am and Meski. It must be food.”
“You have food in the fridge, you have water over there, but you never get close because you observe the presence of Allah.”
For the dinner table
The khateeb helped everyone prepare for Ramadan by explaining intention, fasting responsibilities, and different forms of giving. He described intention as knowing what we mean to do, without needing to announce it aloud. He reminded listeners that Allah wants ease, and discussed people whose age, illness, or pregnancy affects their ability to fast. He emphasized getting food to poor people and checking questions about particular rulings with the religious authority one follows. He also encouraged us to avoid gossip, even in family conversations, and to carry the awareness of Allah we practice while fasting into everyday life.
- What would you like your intention for this Ramadan to be?
- What could you say kindly when a conversation turns into gossip?
- How could remembering Allah help you make a good choice when you are alone?
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