Train the nafs toward taqwa
“Fast as much as you can.”
The khutbah argues that the nafs, the inner self guiding our choices, is shaped by surroundings and actions, so believers should discipline it through Quranic reflection and worship to grow in taqwa.
The khutbah in 5 steps
- Introduces the nafs as the inner self deserving attention alongside the body's functions.
- Uses Surah al-Shams to explain that the nafs can incline toward taqwa or wrongdoing.
- Illustrates the nafs' influence through Abel and Cain and its tendency toward regret and evil.
- Connects satanic whispers and the sequence of Rajab, Sha'ban, and Ramadan to spiritual preparation.
- Calls listeners to fasting, Quran recitation, good deeds, and reflection to train the nafs toward obedience.
In the khateeb's words
“And you set it up. You know, it could be good, taqwaha, or bad, fujuraha.”
“Fast as much as you can. Recite the Quran as much as you can. Make good deeds as much as you can.”
For the dinner table
The khutbah teaches that the nafs is our inner self, the part of us that influences what we choose and do. It can be shaped by our surroundings, education, and repeated actions, and it can move toward either taqwa or wrongdoing. Because the nafs can also be whispered to by Shaytan, we should pay attention to it rather than follow every impulse. The khateeb presents Sha'ban and Ramadan as opportunities to prepare through fasting, Quran recitation, and good deeds. Reading Quranic instructions thoughtfully and practicing them can help us train the nafs to obey Allah.
- What is one good habit that helps your nafs choose obedience?
- Which influence around us can make it easier to do good, and how can we improve it?
- What Quranic instruction could our family practice this week?
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