Submit to Allah even when you struggle
“Kibr is the self elevating its own view above submission.”
Islam requires submitting to Allah’s commands even when personal judgment struggles with them, while guarding against arrogant and uninformed speech that can mislead others.
The khutbah in 7 steps
- Defines al-kibr as elevating personal judgment above submission, not merely looking down on people.
- Explains Islam as complete submission and emphasizes the believers’ response: “we hear and we obey.”
- Warns against selective obedience and illustrates submission through the companions’ reactions to wine prohibition and the change of qiblah.
- Uses Abu Bakr’s response to Isra' al-Mi'raj to show trust in Allah’s wisdom before understanding it.
- Warns that speaking about the deen without knowledge or normalizing prohibitions can mislead others.
- Explains through Qur'an and hadith how spreading falsehood can multiply a person’s burden beyond their own actions.
- Concludes with Qur'anic recitation, including passages from Surah al-Duha and Surah al-'Adiyat.
In the khateeb's words
“kibr is the self elevating its own view above submission”
“you do not have to be the creator of the falsehood to be held accountable for it it could be as simply as sharing it liking it or even validating it”
For the dinner table
Today’s khutbah reminded us that arrogance is not only looking down on people; it can also mean putting our own opinions above Allah’s guidance. Islam asks us to trust Allah and respond with “we hear and we obey,” even when we do not immediately understand everything. The khateeb warned that speaking about Islam without knowledge, or sharing, liking, or approving falsehood, can mislead others and add to our responsibility. We should pause, check what we repeat, and be humble about what we do not know. Our words can keep affecting people after we are gone, so careful speech is part of faithful submission.
- What is one time you changed your mind after learning something true?
- How can we check whether something about Islam is trustworthy before sharing it?
- What could a like or share cause if the message is wrong?
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