Family & marriageFrom the masjid's own video, Aug 22, 2026.

Raising righteous leaders takes teamwork

“There has to be an equity where it is a joint collaborative partnership project between mother and father to raise our children.”

The khateeb, at 19:51

In one sentence

An ideal Muslim family requires intentional, collaborative, and equitable parenting to raise righteous leaders and protect children amid modern technological dangers.

The khutbah in 5 steps

  1. Introduces the ideal Muslim family as a response to family chaos and disharmony.
  2. Explains how artificial intelligence can harm vulnerable people and challenge young people's faith.
  3. Grounds family responsibility in Quranic warnings and supplications for righteous offspring.
  4. Presents intentionality, parental cooperation, and equity as principles for raising righteous leaders.
  5. Concludes with awareness of modern benefits and dangers, community support, and prayer for Dr. Arif Rizvi.
Try this week
Parents and grandparents should intentionally aim to raise righteous leaders alongside academic success.
Families should provide sustained religious upbringing rather than relying only on limited Sunday-school time.
Spouses should align parenting goals, collaborate on decisions, and share authority equitably.
Families should remain alert to technology's potential harms and protect children from hopeless or destructive guidance.
Listeners should pray for Dr. Arif Rizvi daily and avoid calling or visiting while he is not receiving visitors.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“it takes a deep sense of commitment and intentionality by the family to be able to pursue and help them become righteous leaders”
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“Co-operate and collaborate with anyone at any time, at any place, in any matter, so long as the outcome of that collaboration is helpful and healthy for the society.”
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“there has to be an equity where it is a joint collaborative partnership project between mother and father to raise our children.”
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Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

An ideal Muslim family does more than pursue academic success: it intentionally works to raise children as righteous leaders. The khateeb connected this responsibility to Quranic reminders to protect families and pray for righteous offspring who bring goodness to society. Parents should align their goals, cooperate in what is good, and share authority as equal partners; a brief Sunday-school class cannot carry that work alone. Because technology can mislead vulnerable people, families should stay alert to its dangers while supporting people in crisis through respectful prayer and care.

  1. What is one way our family can show more intentionality this week?
  2. How can parents work together when they have different ideas?
  3. What is a respectful way to support someone who is seriously ill?