The Islamic calendarFrom the masjid's own video, Jun 27, 2026.

Small deeds create lasting spiritual change

“The most beloved acts to Allah are the ones that are done consistently.”

The khateeb, at 10:52

In one sentence

The month of Muharram and the fast of Ashura are reminders that real spiritual change comes through small, consistent good deeds sustained over time, not through dramatic overnight transformations.

The khutbah in 8 steps

  1. The Islamic New Year and Ashura as occasions for renewal of faith
  2. The modern problem of expecting instant results in worship and self-improvement
  3. Examples of gym resolutions and gradual religious growth showing change takes time
  4. Prophetic teaching: choose sustainable good deeds and avoid religious extremes
  5. The hadith of the three men and the priority of consistency over intensity
  6. The 40-year prayer story: small consistent deeds are more beloved than one-time miracles
  7. Musa at the sea: deliverance came after years of trust and dua, not a single moment
  8. Closing application: pick one small deed, engage children, and apply what you hear
Try this week
Fast the 10th of Muharram (Ashura) as a chance to have sins erased.
Pick one small, sustainable good deed and do it consistently, such as a small daily charity or praying one prayer on time.
Bring children to the khutbah, have them sit beside you, and discuss the topic on the way home.
If you disagree with the imam or a fellow Muslim, approach respectfully and privately rather than creating division.
Apply what you hear in the khutbah to daily life rather than treating it as a feel-good sermon.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“when you look at every single thing it is that muslims do it's actually just chance after chance for renewal of faith”
FVAMC · Avon, CT
Play from 2:22
“the most beloved acts to Allah are the ones that are done consistently even if no sakheed even if they are small small consistent good deeds done on a daily basis”
FVAMC · Avon, CT
Play from 10:52
“the reason why the sea split not because of a one-time dua we're making dua for years years of persecution years of oppression years of dua finally coming to life when they're looking at the sea right”
FVAMC · Avon, CT
Play from 17:17
“my advice is simple try to pick up on something small right again we're looking for these grand overnight changes which are simply more than likely not going to happen”
FVAMC · Avon, CT
Play from 17:39
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

Ashura reminds us of Allah saving Musa and the Children of Israel from oppression, and it is a special opportunity for fasting, forgiveness, and renewing our faith. The khutbah taught that spiritual growth usually does not happen overnight. Instead, we should choose small good deeds and keep doing them consistently. Musa's trust in Allah also teaches us to remain hopeful even when a solution is not visible. When we disagree, we should speak respectfully and apply the lessons we hear in the khutbah to our behavior.

  1. What is one small good deed you could do every day this week?
  2. What can help us stay hopeful when a problem feels impossible?
  3. How can we show respect when we disagree with someone?