Prepare well and honor the weekly prayer
“Prioritize the Jum'ah khutbah and the Jum'ah salah.”
Friday is a sacred weekly gathering that Muslims should prioritize through early, respectful preparation and attentive participation, then celebrate with family afterward.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Explains Jumu'ah as a sacred weekly gathering and calls attendees to prioritize it over work, school, and commerce.
- Clarifies who is obligated or excused, urges families to bring children from a young age, and addresses school accommodations.
- Covers pre-Jumu'ah preparation: ghusl, cleanliness, good clothing, scent, modest dress, and arriving early.
- Gives etiquette for entering and listening: prayer options, silence, no greetings or handshakes, no phones or play, and no stepping over people.
- Explains crowd and prayer-row manners: make space, fill rows, avoid gaps, and respect the imam's sutrah.
- Closes by permitting greetings after prayer and encouraging families to make Friday a joyful weekly tradition.
In the khateeb's words
“Hasten to the remembrance of Allah. Prioritize the Jum'ah khutbah and the Jum'ah salah. And let go of even the sale.”
“Make this a kind of good day that you celebrate with your children, that you play with your children, that you enjoy with your family, and make it something good for your family.”
“Don't let that be your family. Take your kids to the masjid, inshaAllah.”
For the dinner table
Friday is a special weekly gathering that Muslims should prioritize over ordinary work, school, and business when possible. The khutbah encouraged people to prepare by bathing, wearing clean clothes, arriving early, listening quietly, and making room for others. During the sermon, we should avoid talking, phones, play, and distracting movement, while filling the prayer rows carefully. After prayer, we can greet one another and make Friday joyful through family time and positive memories. Parents were especially urged to bring their children regularly so that mosque attendance and prayer become lasting habits.
- What makes Friday feel special in our family?
- How can we help each other listen respectfully during the khutbah?
- What family tradition could make Jumu'ah a happy memory?
The masjid
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