GratitudeFrom the masjid's own video, Sep 3, 2025.

A good life begins with gratitude

“Happiness has nothing to do with outside factors.”

The khateeb, at 3:10

In one sentence

A good and happy life comes from faith, righteous deeds, gratitude, trust in Allah, doing what one can, and giving to others rather than relying on possessions or circumstances.

The khutbah in 7 steps

  1. Faith and good deeds lead to a good life, while happiness is not dependent on external circumstances.
  2. Listeners should free their hearts from hatred and their minds from worry by living in the present.
  3. Gratitude means focusing on blessings and building a loving home, not merely possessing a house.
  4. In response to suffering such as Gaza, people should focus on what they can do instead of despair or guilt.
  5. Giving includes money, smiles, supplication, visits, and service, moving from personal achievement toward influence.
  6. People should expect less from others, expect more from Allah, and practice daily remembrance for protection from Shaytan.
  7. The khutbah closes with prayers for the community and an invitation to support a Palestine dinner.
Try this week
Free the heart from hatred.
Stop dwelling on the past and worrying excessively about the future.
Focus on existing blessings and thank Allah for them.
Make the morning gratitude supplication.
Do what you can to help people in suffering rather than focusing on what you cannot control.
Give through money, smiles, supplication, phone calls, and visits.
Expect less from people and more from Allah.
Say the specified remembrance 100 times after Fajr.
Sources the khateeb cited
Quran 16:97Used to connect faith and righteous deeds with a good, pure life.
Quran 18:82Used as an example of Allah protecting two orphans because of their righteous father.
Sahih MuslimUsed to explain that Shaytan celebrates causing spouses to divorce.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“happiness has nothing to do with outside factors nothing at all if happiness has to do with outside factors there is no justice here because what about people that they don't have these outside factors”
MCA · Santa Clara, CA
Play from 3:10
“the past is over the future we don't know what can happen in one minute”
MCA · Santa Clara, CA
Play from 5:54
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbah teaches that faith and good deeds can give a person a good life even when circumstances are difficult. Happiness does not come automatically from marriage, money, children, or possessions; it grows through gratitude, trust in Allah, and a peaceful home. We should focus on the blessings we have and on what we can do instead of being consumed by worry or problems beyond our control. Giving to others includes money, but also kindness, prayer, visits, calls, and practical help. The speaker encouraged daily remembrance of Allah and greater reliance on Him.

  1. What is one blessing you notice today that you usually overlook?
  2. When something worries you about the future, what can you do right now?
  3. What small gift of time, prayer, or help could you give someone this week?