Raise children for Allah, not the world
“Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala first will ask you about your time because your time is your life.”
Parents should raise children for Allah by modeling faith, protecting prayer, managing time, guiding friendships, and sustaining patient communication.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Opens with taqwa and prayers for children beginning a new school year.
- Urges parents to renew their intention: raise children for Allah, not only worldly success.
- Emphasizes parental example and faith as protection for children and descendants.
- Prioritizes salah and maintaining children's connection with Allah.
- Warns against wasted time and digital addictions; calls for schedules and disciplined device use.
- Counsels parents to guide friendships and become patient, trusted sources of advice.
In the khateeb's words
“We need them for the sake of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Not for the sake of dunya.”
“their salah is their silah their connection to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala”
“we have to understand that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala first will ask you about your time because your time is your life”
“Count down, use patience and wisdom and try to advise them and direct them in the right way.”
For the dinner table
As a new school year begins, the khateeb reminded us that caring for children is a trust from Allah. He encouraged parents to renew their intentions and work on themselves while helping their children preserve their faith and serve their community. He emphasized staying connected to Allah through prayer and helping children manage their time. He also urged families to pay attention to friendships and the influence of the people around us. Above all, he encouraged parents to respond with patience and wisdom so children feel comfortable coming to them for advice.
- What could we do together to make prayer easier on school days?
- What does a friend do that helps you become a better person?
- How can we help you feel comfortable telling us something difficult?
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