GratitudeFrom the masjid's own video, Jul 11, 2026.

Familiar blessings deserve our gratitude

“We have to stay consistent and thank Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala for His blessings.”

The khateeb, at 26:26

In one sentence

Belittling familiar blessings and growing bored with them is a moral and spiritual disease that gratitude, positive speech, and consistency can help overcome.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Introduces boredom with familiar possessions, responsibilities, and relationships as poor character.
  2. Explains how speaking positively about blessings changes one’s outlook, using Ibrahim and Ismail’s family as an example.
  3. Applies gratitude to children, household messes, food, and the Prophet’s refusal to criticize meals.
  4. Extends the lesson to marriage, relationships, and interpreting difficult situations positively.
  5. Illustrates human fickleness through the rain hadith, an Andalusian anecdote, and the examples of Sheba and Quraysh.
  6. Calls listeners to resist boredom, remain consistent, and thank Allah for existing blessings.
Try this week
Speak explicitly about Allah’s blessings and say Alhamdulillah.
Look at people with fewer blessings to cultivate contentment.
Reframe children’s noise, toys, laundry, and dishes as signs of family and provision.
Thank family members for cooking and caring instead of reviewing or criticizing their efforts.
Name positive qualities in a spouse or loved one alongside any frustration.
Stay consistent with existing clothing, vehicles, responsibilities, and relationships when they remain sound.
Sources the khateeb cited
Quran 93:11Used to encourage speaking about Allah's blessings and expressing gratitude.
Sahih al-BukhariUsed to illustrate how quickly people can move from requesting rain to requesting its removal.
Surah 34Used to show how the people of Sheba took security, fertile gardens, and convenient travel for granted.
Surah 106Used to show how Quraysh received safety and provision but became accustomed to those blessings.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“when you go home and you find there are a lot of toys everywhere and you know like the kids making a big mess that tells you that they are building memories so it's a good thing”
Mosque Foundation · Bridgeview, IL
Play from 9:18
“the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam he would never point out a flaw in his food”
Mosque Foundation · Bridgeview, IL
Play from 10:23
“this is a nature of me and you as human beings you know, you love something to death and then 10 seconds later then you hate it to death”
Mosque Foundation · Bridgeview, IL
Play from 19:57
“we have to resist it and we have to stay the course we have to stay consistent and thank Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala for His blessings”
Mosque Foundation · Bridgeview, IL
Play from 26:26
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbah reminds us that becoming bored with familiar blessings can make us ungrateful. Children, family routines, food, clothing, and reliable transportation may feel ordinary, but they are still gifts from Allah. The Prophet modeled gratitude by appreciating simple food and by recognizing good qualities in people. We should speak about blessings, thank Allah, appreciate those who care for us, and stay consistent rather than constantly chasing something newer.

  1. What ordinary blessing in our home do we sometimes overlook?
  2. How can we turn one family complaint into an expression of gratitude?
  3. What is one good quality you appreciate in someone here?