GratitudeFrom the masjid's own video, Sep 3, 2025.

Gratitude begins with ordinary blessings

“The reason we can't be grateful for the small blessings that Allah has given us is because we're too busy trying to acquire more and more.”

The khateeb, at 8:23

In one sentence

The khutbah argues that gratitude begins with recognizing ordinary blessings, especially safety, health, and daily provision, and becomes real when we speak thanks, reject entitlement, and use those blessings to serve others.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Introduces accountability for blessings through Surah at-Takathur and the danger of chasing quantity.
  2. Reframes safety, health, clean water, warmth, and daily food as immense blessings.
  3. Narrates the Sahih Muslim episode of the hungry Prophet, Abu Bakr, and Umar.
  4. Shows how the Prophet modeled gratitude without complaint or entitlement, even amid poverty.
  5. Calls listeners to verbalize thanks, notice neglected needs, and use blessings in Allah-pleasing ways.
  6. Closes with service-oriented examples, a charity reminder, supplication, and community announcements.
Try this week
Say Alhamdulillah aloud for blessings that are easily overlooked.
Look for something good to say instead of joining complaints.
Notice and care for volunteers, caretakers, and other people who quietly serve.
Use blessings in ways that please Allah.
Visit the sick, visit graves, and accompany orphans to recognize blessings.
Avoid entitlement and reflect on why Allah has given you comfort.
Give charity as you leave if able.
Sources the khateeb cited
Quran 102:1-8Used to frame rivalry for worldly increase and accountability for blessings.
Sahih MuslimNarrates the Prophet, Abu Bakr, and Umar leaving hungry, then being reminded to be grateful after a meal.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“whosoever begins the day feeling family security and good health, and possessing provision for his day, it is as though he possessed the whole world.”
Masjid Sadar · Parlin, NJ
Play from 5:52
“The reason we can't be grateful for the small blessings that Allah has given us is because we're too busy trying to acquire more and more.”
Masjid Sadar · Parlin, NJ
Play from 8:23
“So the volunteers and the caretakers and those who lead in any capacity, they also need to be cared for because if they are cared for, then they can care for others better.”
Masjid Sadar · Parlin, NJ
Play from 14:15
“Always try and find something good to say about your situation.”
Masjid Sadar · Parlin, NJ
Play from 19:19