Community & unityFrom the masjid's own video, Apr 4, 2026.

Muslim brotherhood rejects division and stigma

“A Muslim is the brother of a Muslim.”

The khateeb, at 55:27

In one sentence

Muslim brotherhood must be inclusive and compassionate, welcoming people across ethnic lines and supporting those struggling with addiction rather than stigmatizing them.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Uses the Bedouin’s mosque mistake to illustrate gentle, non-humiliating correction.
  2. Explains the hadith defining Muslim brotherhood through avoiding oppression, grudges, humiliation, and contempt.
  3. Challenges ethnic and masjid-based divisions within the Muslim community.
  4. Presents 2026 research on substance use and addiction among American Muslims.
  5. Describes stigma, shame, and differing imam attitudes toward people facing addiction.
  6. Calls listeners to pray, refer people to Lamps of Light, and donate if able.
Try this week
Treat Muslims from every ethnic background as brothers and sisters, not as members of separate masjid communities.
Respond to people struggling with addiction with support rather than stigma or humiliation.
Keep Lamps of Light in your duas.
Refer anyone struggling with addiction to Lamps of Light.
Donate generously to support the organization if able.
Sources the khateeb cited
Sahih MuslimProhibits grudges, oppression, humiliation, contempt, and violations of a Muslim's rights.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“He did not rebuke me. He just said this is not a place for urination and this is a place for worship.”
ICSB · Lomita, CA
Play from 54:18
“A Muslim is the brother of a Muslim. He neither oppresses him nor humiliates him. Nor looks down upon him.”
ICSB · Lomita, CA
Play from 55:27
“my faith and my family are a source of strength, but also shame and isolation.”
ICSB · Lomita, CA
Play from 58:36
“Some imams viewed their community as only those who regularly attend the mosque and do not have substance use challenges, while others took a more inclusive approach.”
ICSB · Lomita, CA
Play from 60:00
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbah asks us to widen our idea of brotherhood and treat people with mercy and dignity. The Prophet gently corrected a Bedouin who made a mistake in the mosque instead of humiliating him. A hadith teaches that Muslims must not oppress, shame, or look down on one another. The speaker connects this lesson to ethnic divisions in mosques and to Muslims struggling with addiction, who may face shame and isolation. We can help by making dua, offering supportive referrals, and connecting people with organizations such as Lamps of Light.

  1. What is a kind way to correct someone who has made a mistake?
  2. How can our family make someone struggling feel safe asking for help?
  3. What can we do to welcome people from backgrounds different from ours?