Strong families follow the Prophet's sunnah
“The best of you is the one who's best to his family.”
A strong marriage and family life is built by emulating the Prophet's sunnah at home, presence, gratitude, generosity, and emotional attunement, and by couples competing together in worship and service to Allah.
The khutbah in 5 steps
- Opening praises and reminder that summer is the time to invest in family
- Surah al-Rum: marriage is the second great miracle after creation, marked by mawadda and rahma
- The Prophet's own conduct at home: serving his family, full presence like the full moon
- Surah al-Anbiya formula via Zakariya: compete together in good deeds, pray together in hope and fear, stay humble before Allah
- Closing duas for families, the sick, and the oppressed worldwide
In the khateeb's words
“My brothers and my sisters, we're in the summer. And this is the time to invest in our families.”
“the best of you is the one who's best to his family best to his wife and i'm best to my wife”
“the first person he runs to is his wife khadija”
“we used to pray together out of hope and out of fear moments of difficulty”
For the dinner table
Shaykh Hosam Helal reminded us that summer is the time to invest in our families, and that in the Quran, right after the miracle of life itself, Allah names marriage and family as one of His greatest signs, a home meant to be filled with love, mercy, and tranquility. He shared the story of Talha ibn Ubaidullah, who took seventeen arrows for the Prophet and still stood tall to spare him any guilt, and whose wife described him as a real man whose entrance filled the room with laughter, who gave before being asked, and who showed gratitude for every small thing. He also showed how Khadijah was the first person the Prophet ran to in his moment of fear, she sheltered him, spoke words that built him up, and was the first to believe in him and invest in his mission. The Prophet himself was always serving his family at home and was fully present with whoever he was with, like a full moon rather than a crescent. Finally, from the story of Zekariya, he gave three keys to a blessed home: compete together in doing good, pray and make dua together in hope and in fear, and stay humble and available for Allah and for one another.
- If our family competed with each other to do good deeds this week, what would you want to win at?
- The Prophet was like a full moon when he was with people, fully there, no distractions. When do you feel like I'm only a crescent with you?
- Who is the first person you would run to if something scary happened, and what makes them that person for you?
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