Community & unityFrom the masjid's own video, Sep 18, 2026.

Brotherhood builds a strong Muslim community

“If you're looking for a brother without a fault, you'll be left without a brother.”

The khateeb, at 25:58

In one sentence

A strong Muslim community is built through sincere brotherhood, mutual care, forgiveness, and unity for Allah’s sake rather than through buildings alone.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. The Prophet’s migration to Medina is introduced as a project to establish a society grounded in faith and brotherhood.
  2. The khutbah contrasts Medina’s former tribal hatred with the unity created by Allah.
  3. Quranic verses and hadith define brotherhood as mutual rights, care, love, and shared concern for suffering Muslims.
  4. Stories of visiting believers and loving for Allah illustrate how sincere relationships earn divine love and protection.
  5. Stories of Sa‘d ibn Rabia and Abd al-Rahman ibn Awf show radical generosity, while the khutbah urges forgiving human flaws.
  6. The closing call is to reject petty division, release ego and envy, and build a united community.
Try this week
Treat other believers’ problems as seriously as your own and look for ways to relieve hardship.
Avoid envy, hatred, backbiting, rumors, and competing with another Muslim’s sale or engagement.
Visit someone purely for Allah’s sake and become a trustworthy person others can approach during hardship.
Release ego, enmity, and envy in order to strengthen relationships in the masjid.
Accept a brother or sister’s good qualities, forgive faults, and help improve what you can.
Sources the khateeb cited
Quran 3:103Used to urge Muslims to hold fast to Allah’s rope, avoid division, and remember how Allah joined former enemies’ hearts.
Quran 49:10Used to establish that believers are brothers and sisters with responsibilities toward one another.
Sahih al-BukhariUsed to prohibit hatred, envy, backbiting, and harmful interference while commanding mutual love and support.
Sahih al-BukhariUsed to explain that believers are like one body whose parts respond to one another’s pain.
Sahih al-BukhariUsed to show that visiting someone solely out of love for Allah brings Allah’s love.
Sahih al-BukhariUsed to describe the shade granted to two people who love one another for Allah’s sake.
Quran 59:9Used to illustrate the Ansar’s willingness to favor the migrants over themselves despite personal need.
Quran 3:105Used to warn against becoming divided after receiving clear guidance.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“It is very easy to establish a masjid, but it's so hard to keep those hearts lined up behind the imam upon la ilaha illallah, upon goodness, upon love.”
MCC San Diego · Rancho Bernardo, CA
Play from 7:22
“Islam was not built upon individuals. Islam was built upon a communal work. And that started with brotherhood.”
MCC San Diego · Rancho Bernardo, CA
Play from 12:43
“If you're looking for a brother without a fault, you'll be left without a brother. But if you have someone who cares, accept his goodness and forgive his mistakes.”
MCC San Diego · Rancho Bernardo, CA
Play from 25:58
“One of the most destructive element in a community is division. When we start dividing upon matters that are not worth the fight.”
MCC San Diego · Rancho Bernardo, CA
Play from 27:03
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbah teaches that a Muslim community is built through love and brotherhood, not just through beautiful buildings. Believers should care about one another’s hardships, avoid envy and backbiting, and support people for Allah’s sake. The stories of the Ansar and the migrants show how generosity and sacrifice can unite people from very different backgrounds. We should also forgive one another’s faults, avoid unnecessary division, and work together for the good of the community.

  1. What is one disagreement that can be handled with more patience and less division?
  2. How can our family show generosity without embarrassing the person receiving help?