Only your deeds follow you
“The intelligent person is the one who prepares his home.”
Because family and wealth remain in this world while deeds accompany a person through the grave and hereafter, Muslims should prioritize worship and righteous action over worldly distraction.
The khutbah in 7 steps
- Introduces the hadith that family, wealth, and deeds accompany a person to death, but only deeds remain.
- Places worldly life within a larger sequence of grave life, resurrection, and the hereafter.
- Explains how family can either benefit the deceased through prayer or distract people through inheritance disputes and neglected worship.
- Explains that wealth returns to the world and should be used moderately for necessities, charity, and worship.
- Describes deeds accompanying a person through the grave, judgment, and the crossing of the Sirat.
- Uses grave imagery and examples from earlier Muslims to urge preparation for the eternal home.
- Closes by urging changes in schedule, intentions, habits, worldly priorities, and mosque engagement beyond Friday.
In the khateeb's words
“Our deeds is that which is going to follow us forever. In actuality, forever.”
“So the intelligent person, is the one who prepares his home, the home that he will live in for ever.”
“change his schedule, change his intentions, change his habits, and focus on that home, that is going to be everlasting.”
For the dinner table
The khutbah centered on a hadith that three things accompany a person toward the grave: family, wealth, and deeds. Family and wealth remain behind, while deeds continue with us into the grave and the hereafter. The speaker encouraged us to use family and wealth in worship, charity, prayer, and helping others rather than letting them distract us. We should remember that worldly life is short and prepare our lasting home through righteous actions. This preparation means changing our schedules, intentions, and habits while staying engaged with worship and the mosque.
- What is one good deed you hope will stay with you beyond this life?
- How can our family help one another prioritize prayer and worship?
- What habit could you change this week to prepare for your eternal home?
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