GratitudeFrom the masjid's own video, Sep 3, 2025.

Gratitude helps Muslims endure hardship

“Your test is alongside your blessing.”

The khateeb, at 15:00

In one sentence

Even in oppression and hardship, Muslims should deliberately notice Allah’s blessings and practice gratitude, because gratitude invites increase, produces patience, and prevents problems from dominating their perspective.

The khutbah in 5 steps

  1. Uses Thanksgiving as an entry point for reflecting on Islamic gratitude.
  2. Explains Musa’s proclamation to oppressed Israelites that gratitude brings divine increase.
  3. Connects gratitude with positive psychology and the principle that attention magnifies whatever it focuses on.
  4. Uses cake, parenting, and railroad-track analogies to show that blessings coexist with tests and that patience grows from gratitude.
  5. Concludes with ease alongside hardship and a story illustrating that Allah’s mercy exceeds human deeds.
Try this week
Focus deliberately on existing blessings instead of dwelling on what is missing.
Express gratitude to Allah, especially during hardship and oppression.
When children fixate on one unmet desire, remind them of the love, gifts, and opportunities they already received.
Look for blessings alongside every current test.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“whatever you focus on it grows let me repeat whatever you focus on it grows meaning that whatever you focus on grows”
Masjid Sadar · Parlin, NJ
Play from 7:08
“patience is an offshoot or a byproduct of gratitude patience come from what patient comes from gratitude”
Masjid Sadar · Parlin, NJ
Play from 13:11
“your test is alongside your blessing your test is you see when Allah tests you He did not take away all your blessings”
Masjid Sadar · Parlin, NJ
Play from 15:00
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbah uses Thanksgiving as a doorway to think about gratitude to Allah. It reminds us that Musa was told to call an oppressed people to gratitude even while their children were being killed, because gratitude can bring increase and help patience grow. We are encouraged to notice the blessings beside our tests instead of letting one missing thing hide everything we have. The speaker applies this to family life by urging parents to remind children of the love and gifts they have received. The closing lesson is to rely on Allah’s mercy and keep thanking Him in hardship.

  1. What is one blessing you might overlook when you focus on a problem?
  2. How can we help someone in our family notice what they already have?
  3. Can you think of a time gratitude helped you be patient?