The Prophets & seerahFrom the masjid's own video, Sep 19, 2026.

Learn the Prophet's life to love him

“Love is something that grows through knowledge.”

The khateeb, at 6:33

In one sentence

The khutbah argues that loving the Prophet is cultivated by learning his life and following his merciful character, especially by acknowledging grief, accepting Allah's decree, and comforting those who suffer.

The khutbah in 5 steps

  1. Defines love for the Prophet as essential to faith and says it grows through studying his life.
  2. Uses the deaths of Ibrahim and a grandson to show that tears are mercy, not weakness, alongside patience and acceptance of Allah's decree.
  3. Uses the bereaved father story to offer hope of children awaiting parents in Paradise.
  4. Applies the lesson by urging listeners to nurture mercy and support grieving people.
  5. Closes with supplications for softened hearts, sufferers, and Gaza and Palestine.
Try this week
Set aside regular time to learn the Prophet's life and character.
Allow grief and tears without suppressing them, while accepting Allah's decree.
Physically visit and comfort relatives or friends who are grieving.
Build mercy into everyday relationships by following the Prophet's character.
Make dua for people facing illness, bereavement, oppression, and suffering.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“And love is something that grows through knowledge. The more we learn about an individual, the more we learn about their sincerity, their character, their conduct, their behavior, their teachings, their guidance, the more our admiration for them grows.”
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Play from 6:33
“The Prophet alayhi salatu wa sallam is teaching us that we are not supposed to suppress our emotions, but we are supposed to regulate them.”
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“our children do not belong to us. They are a trust that we have been given. They have been placed under our care and protection and they're under our care and protection for a very limited time.”
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“When a family member, when his own daughter is going through a difficult time, he's not keeping a distance, he's right there to support her.”
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