Good character means stopping harm
“It is not friendship, it is not brotherhood, it is not sisterhood to be quiet and let it continue.”
The khutbah argues that taqwa and excellent character require Muslims not merely to avoid wrongdoing but to intervene, seek help, and actively stop harm when it occurs.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Opens by defining taqwa and excellent character as paths to Jannah.
- Uses the Cornell 7 case and youth-risk data to show these dangers can affect Muslims.
- Rejects “don’t snitch” as an Islamic value and presents helping wrongdoers as stopping their oppression.
- Explains the principle that harm must be prevented and removed.
- Urges parents and young people to prepare for real-world situations and intervene safely.
- Closes by connecting justice, good character, and prayers for oppressed communities.
In the khateeb's words
“Not only should we not participate as a Muslim, that should be a given. But rather, we take effort to stop what's going on, to stop the wrong.”
“Your friend comes to you and they're clearly under the influence or intoxicated. Do you have the wherewithal to stop them from driving, to take the keys from them, to step in and get them to a safe place?”
“it is not friendship, it is not brotherhood, it is not sisterhood to be quiet and let it continue.”
For the dinner table
The khateeb reminded us that taqwa is not only private worship but also good character and responsibility toward others. Our faith asks us not only to avoid haram, but to help stop harm when we see it. That may mean taking an intoxicated friend’s keys, helping someone reach safety, speaking up, or involving people who can help. Parents should prepare young people for difficult situations rather than assuming they will never encounter them. The goal is to be people of justice, mercy, and courage who benefit those around us.
- When might helping a friend mean stopping them instead of agreeing with them?
- What could you do if someone nearby were in danger or being harmed?
- How can families prepare for difficult situations before they happen?
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