Small habits can unite the Muslim community
“Don't diminish their value with the eyes of somebody else.”
Practicing small Prophetic habits of greeting, reconciliation, care, and respect can unite a diverse Muslim community and expand its positive influence.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Small individual habits create ripple effects in families, communities, and society.
- Quranic brotherhood requires reconciliation, while diversity exists so people can know one another.
- Unity is a mercy, whereas division and dissension bring punishment and weaken the ummah.
- The six rights of Muslims include greeting, answering invitations, giving counsel, responding to sneezing, visiting the sick, and attending funerals.
- Muslims must reject envy, hatred, commercial manipulation, backbiting, bullying, and violations of life, wealth, and honor.
- Overcoming tribal and ethnic pride allows Muslim character and cooperation to influence society and spread Islam's values.
In the khateeb's words
“these are small things we call them little habits that if you put them into practice that you will see the ripple effect”
“For a man to harbor hatred towards his brother Muslim”
“Don't diminish their value with the eyes of somebody else”
For the dinner table
Imam Arshad reminded us that small habits in how we treat people can have a big effect on our families and communities. He encouraged us to make amends after disagreements and to get to know people whose cultures and backgrounds differ from ours. He explained six rights between Muslims: offering salam, responding to invitations, giving sound advice when asked, praying for someone who sneezes and praises Allah, visiting the sick, and following funeral processions. These acts help people feel welcomed and cared for instead of isolated. He also urged us to remove envy and hatred from our hearts and to protect people’s lives, wealth, and honor. We can begin with our own daily choices, trusting that kindness and good character can spread beyond us.
- Who could you greet or include this week who might otherwise feel left out?
- What could you learn from someone whose family traditions differ from ours?
- What could you say when friends start making fun of someone who is not there?
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