Family & marriageFrom the masjid's own video, Dec 20, 2025.
Parents must pass on faith, not wealth
“We have to remind our children always about the purpose of their existence and why we have them at the first place.”
In one sentence
Parents’ most important inheritance is nurturing their children’s iman and commitment to carry Islam’s message, not merely leaving them material wealth.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Interprets Surah al-Baqarah 2:132 as Abraham and Jacob’s counsel that their children remain submitted to Allah.
- Explains that prophetic inheritance is knowledge, faith, and the religious mission rather than money.
- Urges parents to make their children’s iman and purpose central to their wasiyyah.
- Discusses Quranic pauses, recitation, and the beauty of Arabic, encouraging listeners to learn the language.
- Argues that consistently living Islam is the path toward dying in a state of Islam.
- Warns parents to invest in their children’s faith early, then closes with supplication.
Try this week
Make dua for children’s iman and religious commitment.
Remind children regularly about the purpose of their existence.
Invest in Islamic upbringing from an early age rather than waiting until adulthood.
Include care for the deen in a family wasiyyah, not only money and assets.
Learn or revisit Arabic to appreciate the Quran’s structure and beauty.
Quotes
In the khateeb's words
“That is really important. Especially in society like this, we have to remind our children always. about the purpose of their existence and why We have them at the first place.”
“I hope that will be clear, and I hope that will encourage you to learn Arabic, to go back to learn Arabic, to see the beauty of it in there.”
Talk about it at home
For the dinner table
The khutbah reminds us that a parent’s most important inheritance is not money but faith. Abraham and Jacob are presented as examples of parents who wanted their children to remain submitted to Allah and continue the religious message. We should make dua for our children, teach them Islam steadily, and talk with them about why they exist. The speaker also encourages learning Arabic to appreciate the Quran’s beauty and warns that faith should be nurtured long before adulthood.
- What helps you remember why Allah created you?
- What part of Islam would you want to pass on to someone younger?
- What would make learning Quranic Arabic meaningful to you?
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