Civic engagementFrom the masjid's own video, May 2, 2026.

Da'wah begins by listening and connecting

“Dawah starts with connecting with the individual that you're talking to.”

The khateeb, at 43:51

In one sentence

Every Muslim should play a role in da'wah by listening, connecting sincerely, sharing Islam's essentials, and confidently offering the Qur'an and Muslim identity to others.

The khutbah in 7 steps

  1. Qur'anic recitation emphasizes creation, resurrection, worship, accountability, gratitude, patience, and social responsibility.
  2. Da'wah is introduced as calling people to Allah, not argumentative street debate.
  3. Effective da'wah begins with listening, asking questions, and connecting with the person.
  4. Ordinary Muslims can focus on the shahadah and should honestly admit when they do not know an answer.
  5. Public events, personal relationships, and sharing the Qur'an create opportunities to explain Islam.
  6. Muslims should reject a defensive bubble, embrace their identity, and participate in organized da'wah efforts.
  7. The khutbah closes with prayers for oppressed communities and the establishment of prayer.
Try this week
Listen and ask sincere questions about another person's beliefs and motivations.
Focus on the shahadah: la ilaha illallah muhammad rasulallah.
Say “I do not know” when you cannot answer a difficult question, then share what you do know.
Share a copy of the Qur'an with someone interested in Islam.
Join the announced da'wah workshops and participate at outreach tables.
Be openly and confidently Muslim, accepting some initial social awkwardness.
Sources the khateeb cited
Surah 30Its signs of creation, resurrection, fitrah, worship, charity, and corruption frame accountability and return to Allah.
Surah 31Luqman's counsel supports tawhid, gratitude, prayer, enjoining good, patience, humility, and good conduct.
Quran 64:16Used to explain that believers should fear Allah as much as they are able.
Quran 29:46Used to support engaging the People of the Book in the best manner rather than argumentative debate.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“dawah starts with listening dawah starts with connecting with the individual that you're talking to”
ICSB · Lomita, CA
Play from 43:51
“the reality is it is not your job to answer questions in dawah you don't have to answer any questions not a single question”
ICSB · Lomita, CA
Play from 45:47
“the number one indicator of whether they have positive views or negative ones of islam and muslims is whether they personally know a muslim”
ICSB · Lomita, CA
Play from 50:25
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

Today's khutbah reminds us that da'wah means inviting people to Allah, and it belongs to every Muslim. It is not about winning arguments; it begins with listening, asking sincere questions, and sharing the basics of Islam with humility. If we do not know an answer, we should say so honestly and explain what we do know. The khateeb encouraged us to share the Qur'an, join da'wah efforts, and be openly Muslim instead of hiding in a defensive bubble. He also connected this work to solidarity with oppressed Muslims and prayed for people facing suffering around the world.

  1. What is one question you could ask someone to understand their beliefs better?
  2. How could you share something beautiful about Islam without turning the conversation into an argument?
  3. Where might you practice being openly and confidently Muslim this week?