Family & marriageFrom the masjid's own video, May 9, 2026.

Faith is measured by how we treat family

“We have to act in the present.”

The khateeb, at 25:29

In one sentence

Islam is tested in family and community relationships, so honoring parents, preserving mercy, and acting against injustice today are measures of faith.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Frames Islam as being tested through family relationships.
  2. Reflects on mothers, aunts, grandmothers, and women as moral guides.
  3. Urges listeners to act in the present and oppose wrong according to their ability.
  4. Calls for using one's voice against injustice through civic engagement.
  5. Connects honoring mothers and families with Quranic teachings on mercy, parents, justice, and relatives.
  6. Closes with prayers for parents, healing, family ties, and mercy.
Try this week
Act in the present rather than postponing important responsibilities.
Change wrongdoing with your hand, tongue, or heart according to your ability.
Speak against injustice and address legislators at local, state, and national levels.
Honor parents, maintain family ties, and work to restore love between relatives.
Give sadaqa for Allah.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“granted we can't act in the past the past because the past is already gone we can't act in the future because the future is not here we have to act in the present”
Al-Muminun · Winston-Salem, NC
Play from 25:29
“we have to use our voice to speak out against injustices we have to use our voice to speak out against wrong”
Al-Muminun · Winston-Salem, NC
Play from 30:09
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

Today's khutbah taught that Islam is tested first in how we treat our families. The speaker honored mothers and other women who guided people away from wrongdoing and helped communities pursue justice. Because today is a gift, we should act now: resist wrong with our hands, words, or hearts according to our ability. We should honor parents, maintain family ties, heal broken relationships, and make mercy visible in our homes and communities.

  1. What is one kind thing we can do for a parent or elder this week?
  2. When you see something wrong, what could using your hands, words, or heart look like safely?
  3. Who in our family or neighborhood might need more mercy right now?