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Family & marriageFrom the masjid's own video, Jun 20, 2026.

Marriage is an act of worship

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“It is an act of worship, my brothers and sisters in Islam.”

The khateeb, at 7:20

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In one sentence

Marriage should be approached as an act of worship and a generational responsibility, with righteousness, parental guidance, and commitment to Quran and Sunnah prioritized over worldly desires.

The khutbah in 5 steps

  1. The khutbah presents righteous spouse selection as the foundation for future family success.
  2. It explains that religion should outweigh wealth, lineage, and beauty when choosing a spouse.
  3. Parents are urged to educate their children and investigate potential partners.
  4. Marriage is framed as worship, with spouses supporting prayer, Quran, and Islamic practice.
  5. The speaker warns that marriage choices influence descendants and calls youth to follow Quran and Sunnah.
Try this week
Discuss marriage expectations and spouse selection before entering a relationship.
Prioritize righteousness and religious commitment when evaluating a potential spouse.
Parents should educate sons and daughters about marital rights and responsibilities.
Involve parents or trusted investigators when assessing a potential spouse.
Support one another in prayer, Quran recitation, mosque attendance, and other Islamic practices.
Follow Quran and Sunnah in building family life.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“The ultimate goal is not just to fulfill your desires in the dunia, but to go beyond that is to go until the Qiyamah.”
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“Prior to getting into a relationship so you know how to choose a righteous spouse.”
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“It is not all fun. It is an act of worship, my brothers and sisters in Islam.”
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Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbah taught that choosing a spouse is a serious decision with spiritual and family consequences. The khateeb encouraged people to value righteousness and character more deeply than wealth, appearance, or social background. He urged young people and parents to communicate early, seek guidance, and investigate important questions before marriage. Marriage was presented as an act of worship in which spouses help one another grow closer to Allah and understand their responsibilities. The khutbah also reminded us that building a faithful, peaceful home can shape children and generations to come.

  1. What character quality would make someone a good and supportive spouse?
  2. How can parents and young people talk respectfully about marriage choices?
  3. What is one way family members can help each other grow closer to Allah?
Where it was given

The masjid

Islamic Center of East Madison4002 Lien Rd, Madison, WI 53704Jumu'ah 1:15 PMArchiveAll khutbahs at ICEM6 khutbahs
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