Why believers should not cling to this world
“His money and his family follow him to the graveyard.”
Because the dunya, relationships, power, and life are fleeting, believers should attach themselves primarily to Allah, act righteously, and prepare people and institutions to continue after they are gone.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- The dunya constantly changes, so believers should not become overly attached to health, wealth, relationships, or circumstances.
- Imam al-Shafi‘i’s poetry illustrates contentment with divine decree, resilience, loyalty, and mortality.
- Prophetic teachings show that deeds remain after death while family and wealth return.
- Attachment can distort decisions involving family, money, courage, and responsibility.
- Parents, masjids, and institutions should plan for succession and prepare others spiritually.
- The Prophet’s farewell advice emphasizes holding firmly to his Sunnah and preparing for future confusion.
In the khateeb's words
“Everything changes. And we as believers are taught to treat this dunya like that. Never get too attached.”
“three things follow the mayyat and only one remains with him and two come back. His money and his family follow him to the graveyard.”
For the dinner table
The khutbah reminds us that almost everything in this world changes: our health, wealth, relationships, jobs, and influence. We should love people and use our blessings well, but our deepest attachment should be to Allah and the lasting reward of good deeds. The speaker especially urges parents to prepare their children’s faith and institutions to prepare future leaders. The Prophet’s farewell advice teaches us to hold firmly to his Sunnah when life becomes confusing. We can live more wisely by accepting Allah’s decree, serving others, and preparing for the time when we will leave this world.
- What is one change in life that helped you remember Allah?
- How can our family prepare our faith to continue after we are gone?
- What is one responsibility we should make easier for someone else to carry?
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