Serve your parents while you can
“You have to do it right away, you have to do it immediately, and you have to do it yourself.”
Allah measures true greatness by sincere faith, humility, and service to parents rather than wealth, fame, or social status.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- The khutbah opens with faith, righteous action, truth, patience, and detachment from worldly love.
- The Prophet’s description of humble, obscure believers introduces Uways al-Qarni.
- Uways’s devotion to his sick, blind mother kept him from traveling to meet the Prophet.
- Umar and Ali search for Uways, discovering his extreme humility and detachment from money and clothing.
- The speaker draws two lessons: honoring parents and cultivating humility.
- Listeners are urged to serve parents personally and promptly, followed by prayers for deceased community members.
In the khateeb's words
“he may be poor but Allah ta'ala considers him one of the kings”
“if you have a living parent I appeal to you to take good care of them”
“you have to do it right away you have to do it immediately and you have to do it yourself”
“take this opportunity and be good to your parents take this it's a hidden treasure Allah ta'ala rewarded to you it's a hidden treasure”
For the dinner table
The khutbah centered on Uways al-Qarni, a poor and little-known man whom Allah honored because of his sincerity and exceptional care for his mother. He could have traveled to meet the Prophet, but he stayed to serve his blind, sick mother. The speaker said this teaches us that Allah’s measure of greatness is different from people’s measure of wealth, clothing, and fame. We were urged to care for living parents personally and promptly, without showing irritation. The khutbah closed with prayers for people from the community who had died.
- What is one quiet good deed you could do without anyone noticing?
- How can you help a parent or grandparent this week?
- What matters more than expensive clothes or popularity?
More on Family & marriage
Don't let a moment of disagreement turn into conflict where years of good are forgotten like that.14:45IAR Atwater · Southwest Raleigh, NC · Oct 31, 2026Protect relationships when disagreements arise
We cannot have disrespectful parents disrespecting each other in the presence of their kids.22:41UMMA · Southfield, MI · Sep 19, 2026Faith shows in how we treat family