Death & the hereafterFrom the masjid's own video, Nov 3, 2025.

Death is certain, so prepare well

“The only thing that we share equally and fully is the reality of death.”

The khateeb, at 2:37

In one sentence

Because death is certain but its timing and ending are unknown, Muslims should remember it often, prepare through faith and good character, and avoid judging others while seeking a good ending.

The khutbah in 5 steps

  1. Establishes death as the one reality shared equally by all people, supported by Qur'anic reminders.
  2. Explains that death is not the end but the beginning of another chapter, urging frequent remembrance of it.
  3. Shares stories of people who died in prostration in Medina and during Hajj, emphasizing the uncertainty of one's final moment.
  4. Warns listeners not to judge people by their outward behavior or apparent shortcomings.
  5. Concludes with calls to prepare for death, seek a good ending, and pray for suffering communities and individuals.
Try this week
Frequently remember death and prepare spiritually for returning to Allah.
Do not judge people by their outward practice or apparent shortcomings.
Ask Allah for forgiveness and a good ending.
Avoid smoking or shisha, which the speaker explicitly discourages.
Pray for people facing war, illness, hardship, and anxiety.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“The only thing. That we share. Equally. And fully. Is the reality. Of death. Nothing else. We share equally. Except death.”
Masjid Sadar · Parlin, NJ
Play from 2:37
“So you don't judge people. You don't see them and their action because you don't know what is the ending, what is the husnul khatima.”
Masjid Sadar · Parlin, NJ
Play from 18:05
“My message to all of us here today, death is inevitable. We have to be prepared. I mean, as much as we prepare, we still will be unprepared.”
Masjid Sadar · Parlin, NJ
Play from 18:16
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbah reminds us that everyone shares the certainty of death, while Muslims understand death as the beginning of another chapter and a return to Allah. Because we do not know when or how our lives will end, we should prepare through worship, forgiveness, and good character. The stories teach us not to judge people by appearances or assume we know their ending. We are also encouraged to pray for people facing war, illness, hardship, and fear.

  1. What is one kind action you could take this week without expecting praise?
  2. How can remembering death help us treat our family members more gently?
  3. What can our family do to support someone who is suffering?