Community & unityFrom the masjid's own video, Sep 5, 2026.

Use AI as a tool, not an authority

“How do I use this AI so that it doesn't take over my life, but it's used as a tool?”

The khateeb, at 17:51

In one sentence

In an AI-saturated world, Muslims should preserve human relationships and moral responsibility, using AI as a bounded tool that serves rather than replaces faith, family, community, and spiritual growth.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. AI is pervasive and carries biases, environmental costs, and dehumanizing risks.
  2. Human connection, patience, forgiveness, and sacrifice cultivate akhlaq and spiritual maturity.
  3. Families and communities must protect learning, critical thinking, and child development from cognitive offloading.
  4. AI should remain a tool guided by Islamic adab, human teachers, and moral guardrails.
  5. Technology should free time for family, community, service, and spiritual growth.
  6. The khutbah closes with three reminders: preserve connection, accept responsibility, and be the user rather than the used.
Try this week
Attend Jumu'ah and intentionally maintain human connection through greetings and community presence.
Practice patience, forgiveness, mercy, and sacrifice in family and community relationships.
Take religious and moral questions to qualified teachers and trusted people instead of outsourcing them entirely to AI.
Use AI with explicit Islamic adab and guardrails, treating it as a tool rather than an authority.
Use time saved through technology for family, community service, self-reflection, and spiritual growth.
Increase spiritual vigilance when using chatbots and posting on social media.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“Real family, real marriage, real friendships have friction. If you're going to be a yes woman or a yes man to each other, you're not building up each other.”
At-Thohir · Koreatown, CA
Play from 8:52
“When we seek synthetic relationships to bypass this human struggle. That's what's called dehumanization.”
At-Thohir · Koreatown, CA
Play from 9:30
“How do I use this AI so that it doesn't take over my life, but it's used as a tool?”
At-Thohir · Koreatown, CA
Play from 17:51
“Have the Akhira, have the world, have the paradise, have Allah SWT, have the way, have the Prophet Muhammad SAW in your hearts. But don't let the dunya take you and overwhelm you.”
At-Thohir · Koreatown, CA
Play from 22:27
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

Today’s khutbah reminded us that AI is becoming part of daily life, but it cannot replace human connection, teachers, family, or the spiritual work of becoming people of good character. Real relationships can be difficult, yet patience, forgiveness, mercy, and sacrifice help us grow in akhlaq. We should protect our minds and our children’s learning by taking moral responsibility instead of sending every question or feeling to a soulless chatbot. If we use AI, we should treat it as a limited tool, add Islamic guardrails, and make sure it serves our faith, family, community, and beneficial work. The deeper reminder was to keep Allah and the Hereafter in our hearts while keeping technology under our control.

  1. When has patience helped you handle friction with someone you love?
  2. What is one helpful thing technology should never replace in our family?
  3. How could we use saved time to do more good this week?