Parents must teach faith before adolescence
“He preached religion to his children.”
Parents’ first duty is to protect their children’s faith through early, loving religious upbringing centered on prayer, respect, humility, patience, and Quranic guidance.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Parents must first teach children to protect their faith and avoid shirk.
- Luqman’s counsel emphasizes gratitude and kindness toward parents, including non-Muslim parents without obeying them in disbelief.
- The advice continues with prayer, encouraging good, patience, humility, moderate conduct, and gentle speech.
- Religious upbringing and correction of bad habits should begin before adolescence.
- Family examples contrast worldly-focused parenting with sustained religious education.
- Parents and grandparents should keep opening and following the Quran after Ramadan.
In the khateeb's words
“If you try to understand the order of the nasiha, first is about the religion, protection of the iman. Then it talks about be kind to your parents, especially the mother it is mentioned.”
“Do sabr in a calamity. Those who are patient in a calamity, they are the ones who are courageful.”
“all he did was he preached religion to his children all six daughters and the son all he talked about was religion”
For the dinner table
The khutbah reminded us that a parent’s first responsibility is helping children protect their faith. It also emphasized kindness and gratitude toward parents, especially mothers, because of the sacrifices they make. Children should be taught to pray, avoid even small sins, remain humble, and speak gently to others. The khateeb stressed that good upbringing should begin when children are young, through loving conversations about the Quran and religion. When families invest in faith and character early, Allah can place great blessing in their lives.
- What is one way we can make prayer easier for everyone in our family?
- How can you show your mother or father gratitude this week?
- What is one good habit you would like to build while you are still young?
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