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Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Jan 3, 2026.

Prophetic character can draw people to Islam

FIC · Abdullah Waheed

“Never be in the asking hand.”

The khateeb, at 24:51

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In one sentence

Muslims should embody the Prophet Muhammad’s humility, generosity, kindness, and purpose so their character leaves a prophetic impression that draws people toward Islam.

The khutbah in 7 steps

  1. The Prophet’s true impression came from character and purpose, not wealth or status.
  2. Safwan bin Umayyah was welcomed with protection, patience, and generosity after the conquest of Mecca.
  3. The Prophet transformed Abu Mahdhurah from mocking the adhan into Mecca’s mu’azzin by teaching and blessing him.
  4. His gifts to Hakim bin Hizam led to a lesson on contentment, barakah, and becoming a giving hand.
  5. Shaybah bin Uthman’s story shows mercy and purpose turning an attacker into a devoted believer.
  6. Listeners are urged to represent Islam through humility, service, youth mentorship, and kind digital communication.
  7. The khutbah closes with Qur’anic recitation, salawat, and prayers for the ill, deceased, and oppressed.
Try this week
Represent Islam through everyday help, such as assisting others and opening doors for elders.
Give money, advice, time, knowledge, or expertise instead of always remaining a recipient.
Include and mentor young people with patience rather than dismissing or scolding them.
Use politeness and kindness in texts, voice notes, and other communication.
Reflect on how your words and messages may be remembered after your death.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“Sometimes most impressive acts of people are the humility, not the arrogance, not showing off.”
FIC · Swartz Creek, MI
Play from 15:45
“He won his heart. Made dua for him. Not only did he become a leader, he became the Mu'azzin of Mecca.”
FIC · Swartz Creek, MI
Play from 22:03
“Always give. Don't always ask. Never be in the asking hand.”
FIC · Swartz Creek, MI
Play from 24:51
“Every message that you send someone is not just screenshotted or forwarded. But it should be impressive to Allah.”
FIC · Swartz Creek, MI
Play from 31:40
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbah teaches that the most lasting impression we leave is not our wealth or status, but the humility, generosity, and kindness we show. The Prophet Muhammad welcomed enemies, guided a young mocker, and gave generously until people’s hearts changed. We are asked to become a giving hand by sharing money, time, advice, and knowledge without greed. We should include young people and speak gently in texts and voice notes, remembering that our words may be heard after we are gone. In this way, everyday character can become a beautiful invitation toward Islam.

  1. What is one generous thing you can give this week besides money?
  2. How can we welcome a young person who feels left out or makes a mistake?
  3. What would make our family voice notes sound kinder and more loving?
Where it was given

The masjid

Flint Islamic Center9447 Corunna Rd, Swartz Creek, MI 48473Jumu'ah Khutbah 2:00 PM · iqamah 2:30 PMKhateebAbdullah WaheedMore khutbahsArchiveAll khutbahs at FIC50 khutbahs
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