Choose courage and service over worldly gain
“When there is some financial gain that we can have that is displeasing to Allah, do we choose the other life?”
The story of Nusaybah teaches Muslims to overcome arrogance, choose the hereafter over worldly gain, and actively pursue courage, service, and community-building.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Opens with calls to taqwa, steadfast faith, and reunion in Paradise.
- Sets the late-Makkah context of persecution, loss, and the Prophet’s worldly vulnerability.
- Contrasts Medina’s humility with Makkah’s arrogant self-sufficiency and introduces Nusaybah at Aqabah.
- Recounts Nusaybah’s courage at Uhud, including defending the Prophet after her son was killed.
- Follows Habib’s loyalty and Nusaybah’s continued struggle against Musaylima.
- Concludes by urging listeners to chase the companions’ example through active communal potential.
In the khateeb's words
“When there is some financial gain that we can have that is displeasing to Allah, do we choose the other life?”
“He said, Nuseba, no man could have done what you did for me at Uhud.”
“So may we look at these examples not just as stories, but as light that we are going to chase.”
For the dinner table
Today’s khutbah told the story of Nusaybah, a courageous companion who stood with the Prophet and the early Muslim community. She came to Uhud to help care for the wounded, but when the battle turned, she took up a sword and defended the Prophet. Even after losing her son Abdullah, she continued serving Allah, and her son Habib also remained loyal when tested by Musaylima. The khateeb asked whether we will choose the hereafter over worldly gain and humility over arrogance. We should see these stories as examples of courage, service, learning, and community-building that Muslims can pursue today.
- When is it hard to choose what pleases Allah over what benefits us financially?
- Which quality from Nusaybah’s story would you like to practice this week?
- How can our family build or serve our community more actively?
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