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Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Apr 3, 2026.

Choose friends who shape your faith

Mosque Foundation

“A person follows the way of his friend.”

The khateeb, at 12:19

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In one sentence

Choose close friends carefully because their character, advice, and influence shape your faith, worldly life, and fate in the Hereafter.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Frames friendship as a daily decision alongside major life choices.
  2. Explains the prophetic parable of the musk seller and blacksmith.
  3. Presents five qualities of a righteous close friend.
  4. Warns against companions who conceal wrongdoing, betray confidence, or open doors to haram.
  5. Connects righteous friendship to companionship and intercession in the Hereafter.
  6. Urges listeners to seek good friends through the masjid and preserve those relationships.
Try this week
Review who your closest friends are and distinguish them from general acquaintances.
Seek friends who remind you of Allah, give sincere advice, elevate your faith and worldly life, protect your reputation, and avoid leading you toward haram.
Look for righteous companionship through the masjid, Qur'an classes, lectures, prayer, and service to others.
Hold firmly to beneficial friends and step away from relationships or online contacts that pull you toward sinful content or behavior.
Invest deeply in at least one trustworthy friend who will support you in this life and the Hereafter.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“a person follows the way of his friend their character their situation their way of talking their way of walking their way of joking their way of seriousness”
Mosque Foundation · Bridgeview, IL
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“you need somebody that you laugh with or you laugh with in the hereafter”
Mosque Foundation · Bridgeview, IL
Play from 20:10
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For the dinner table

Sh. Jafar reminded us that choosing close friends is an important decision we make in everyday life. Like the pleasant scent of a perfume seller, a good friend's influence can reach us even in small moments together. He described five qualities to look for: remembering Allah, giving honest advice, helping us grow in faith and everyday life, protecting us when we are absent, and keeping us away from haram. He encouraged us to appreciate sincere reminders and hold firmly to friends who want good for us. Our friendships matter beyond this life, so we should choose righteous companions and work to become good friends ourselves.

  1. Who helps you remember Allah, and what do they do that helps?
  2. What could you say when people start making fun of a friend who isn't there?
  3. What is one good thing you could invite a friend to do with you this week?
Where it was given

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