14:04 our wives are meant as…29:30 modesty and da'wah is…99:16 get the ball rolling…
Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Oct 10, 2026.

Modesty starts at home and serves the ummah

ICC Tempe

“Get the ball rolling; don't wait for permission.”

The khateeb, at 99:16

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In one sentence

A Muslim's faith is shown through modesty and noble character, especially in marriage, family, and da'wah, and through taking responsibility for the communal obligations that build a strong, service-oriented ummah.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Defines modesty as an inward and outward virtue that brings only good.
  2. Applies modesty to marriage, boundaries, forgiveness, speech, and online da'wah.
  3. Calls listeners to practice gentle character at home before correcting or representing others.
  4. Urges proper dress and respectful, private advice in the masjid.
  5. Explains communal obligations and how neglecting them harms individuals and the wider ummah.
  6. Calls listeners to balance personal and family duties, identify local needs, and take responsibility without waiting for permission.
Try this week
Practice modesty in dress, speech, heart, and relationships, including protective boundaries in marriage.
Show good character and gentleness at home before presenting da'wah to coworkers or correcting others.
Wear clothing that properly covers the awrah and is not too tight when coming to the masjid; offer private, gentle reminders.
Fulfill individual religious duties and family provision and nurturing before taking on additional community work.
Identify an unmet local need, choose one matching your skills or passion, and start addressing it without waiting for permission.
Keep meaningful skin in the game through time, work, or resources so community obligations are not left to a few.
Plan career and lifestyle choices in ways that leave room for meaningful community service.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“our wives are meant as veils for us our husbands are meant as veils for us from the haram”
ICC Tempe · Tempe, AZ
Play from 14:04
“modesty and da'wah is not loud modesty and da'wah is not rude it's not harsh”
ICC Tempe · Tempe, AZ
Play from 29:30
“get the ball rolling don't wait for permission Allah's already commanded you”
ICC Tempe · Tempe, AZ
Play from 99:16
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbahs taught that modesty is more than clothing; it is a quality of the heart, speech, relationships, and character. It should protect marriages, shape how we treat family, and guide gentle private advice instead of loud or harsh correction. The second sermon urged believers to build strong communities through prayer, service, and shared responsibility. We should fulfill our personal duties and care for our families, then identify unmet needs and take a real role in meeting them. We should plan our time, careers, and resources so community work is not left to a burned-out few.

  1. Where could our family show more modesty or gentleness this week?
  2. What community need would you like to help with, and what could be your first step?
  3. How can we serve others while still caring properly for our family responsibilities?
Where it was given

The masjid

Islamic Community Center of Tempe131 E 6th St, Tempe, AZ 85281Jumu'ah 12:30 to 1:00 PM · 1:30 to 2:00 PM · 2:40 to 3:00 PMArchiveAll khutbahs at ICC Tempe52 khutbahs
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